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Hayden | Human Behaviour Specialist

Human Behaviour Specialist - New Zealand - Hayden
Online Therapy, Psychology & Mindhealth
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Online Therapy, Psychology & Mindhealth

Uncover the Why.

Gain mastery of your mind, emotions, and life.


Hi! I’m Hayden, Human Behaviour Specialist.


I help people uncover and transform the “why” behind their actions and emotional challenges.


Working together, we uncover and resolve the root cause behind your emotional challenges and long-term behaviours that no longer serve you.

I work privately with individuals in Nelson and Nation-wide via Zoom/Skype consultation.






Through my own journey to health, I was introduced to the incredible tool, The Demartini Method. 
This ground-breaking methodology alongside further studies in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, NLP, and Jungian Psychology has led me down the path of what is referred to as “Depth Psychology.”

This approach focuses more on our past experiences and unconscious mind for the source of our symptoms and mental challenges – balancing any triggers or unconscious associations or beliefs that may have formed across our lifetime.

I have trained and mentored under Dr. John Demartini, who is recognised as the world-leading authority on human behaviour. Facilitating and teaching internationally at his signature program, “The Breakthrough Experience”.

I have since incorporated Dr. Demartini’s ground-breaking methodology and teachings into my own unique style, which I have aptly named “Mind Health.”



My areas of specialty:

  • Unconscious or “Self-Sabotaging” Behaviours

  • Anxiety, Depression, and Feelings of Overwhelm

  • Past or Present Relationship Challenges

  • Traumatic Events / Letting go of Painful Memories

  • Executive & Performance Coaching

  • Sports Performance / Mental Skills Coaching

If you would you like to know more or make an appointment - feel free to contact me.
It is important to me that I am partnering with clients who allign with my approach. I always start with a no obligation discussion of your goals and what you would be looking to get out of an investment like this.

In Health,


Online therapy

Zoom, Skype or Phone/audio consultations available. However you are most comfortable.

Qualifications and registrations

  • Certified Demartini Method Practitioner
  • Jungian Clinical Essentials Certificate
  • Certified NLP Practitioner
  • CBT training


Identifying Unconscious or “Self-Sabotaging” Behaviours

Identify any hidden and unconscious actions you may have been acting out.
Once brought conscious, we will dissolve any unwanted associations and relink your new goals and desired actions. This process also works effectively for addictive behaviours.

Anxiety, Depression, and Feelings of Overwhelm

Discover the root cause and triggers of your anxiety.
Learn the tools to balance your perceptions and bring yourself down from future emotional states. Learn how depression is more than a biochemical imbalance and is actually offering you feedback about your life.

Past or Present Relationship Challenges

Let go of painful memories and transform your current health and perception.
Learn how to dissolve resentment or infatuations with others so they no longer dominate space and time in your mind.

Traumatic Events

It is not what happens to us but how we perceive it. I will show you how to find meaning and balance any moments of perceived trauma throughout your life. Let go of the remaining emotions, guilt, or depression.

Weight Loss

Psychology, the forgotten component of sustainable weight loss.
Uncover what previously-unconscious associations have been driving your behaviours and relationship with food. Learn the mental tools to transform your health and body.


Executive & Performance Coaching

This may include clarifying your purpose, career goals, or objectives, learning the psychology behind wealth building or resolving any personal conflicts or mental distractions keeping you from being your most productive self.

Sports Performance

If you are an athlete or sportsperson who wants to achieve at the highest possible level, then you will need to equally master the mental game.
If you have the physical skills and are performing in the moment, present and focused, you will win. If you are distracted by emotions, competitors, or what is happening in your personal life, you are limiting your potential.



The investment for my 6-week package is $1400

6x 55-minute sessions over 6-weeks. Weekly or Fortnightly.


You will be introduced to the fundamentals of Mind Health, The Demartini Method, and the Value Determination Process. Their practical applications dissolve internal challenges, balance emotions, and expand your understanding of yourself and your hierarchy of values.
Across the 6 weeks, we will systematically prioritise and work through any conscious or unconscious perceptions and emotional charges. I will provide you with the tools to resolve fears, guilt, anxieties, resentment, intimidation, grief, and any emotion keeping you from being at your best.


Reviews Online Therapy, Psychology & Mindhealth

Below you will find reviews about Online Therapy, Psychology & Mindhealth - Hayden

Rating of 4,9 out of 5
Based on 7 reviews

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Hayden’s approach had the biggest long-term effect on me and my mental well-being

“I’ve worked with a lot of coaches and counsellors – Hayden’s approach had the biggest long-term effect on me and my mental well-being.”

Hayden was transformative for me, both when I was working with him and more importantly, after that.
He listened intently, engaged in not only the problem but in sourcing the solution, and came at things with a difference-making approach.
I’ve worked with a lot of coaches and/or counsellors and found Hayden’s approach to have one of the biggest long term affects on me and my mental well-being.

| Wellington | 11 Jan 2023
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Hayden was great

Hayden was great, his methods of teaching has allowed me to be much more self aware of my unique set of values giving me much more freedom and clarity to pursue what I really want and being unapologetic as to what others may think which is very liberating.

| Nelson city | 12 Jan 2022
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Resolution of long-standing issues

“Resolution of long-standing issues”

Mindset work with Hayden has been crucial to my success and well-being in all areas of my life. His work is effective, creates genuine movement, provides resolution of long-standing issues, and removes blockages to progress.
It’s powerful and meaningful work. Don’t be fooled or put off by Hayden’s relative youth. He knows what he’s doing and I am so glad to have found him.

| Auckland | 29 Dec 2022
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Different approach to anything I had encountered

“Different approach to anything I had encountered”

Hayden’s life coach program really enabled me to take control and finally lose the weight I’ve been trying to for a while. Hayden approach is different to anything I have encountered before and really helped me understand the deeper reasons of why I was doing things, the reasons why I hadn’t been successful previously, and by uncovering my values and what drives me in my everyday life.

My self-confidence has grown, and exercise and good nutrition no longer feel like a chore.
Hayden has enabled me to make mindset changes in my lifestyle that has yielded tangible results. I fully recommend Hayden’s therapy if you want to push through the mental barriers that block you and find out what really drives you.

| Timaru | 29 Nov 2022
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The sessions were so valuable to me

Hayden's sessions were absolutely so valuable to me. They helped me reconstruct my thought process with many aspects of my life for the better.

Hayden is incredibly thorough and makes you feel extremely comfortable and confident when talking and dealing with 'the big stuff'. Thanks Hayden😀

| Auckland | 27 Sep 2021
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Back in the drivers seat of my life

Hayden's committed to helping people become the best versions of themselves through Mind Health. He will educate and empower you to tackle your goals with enthusiasm and put you back in the drivers seat of your life.

| 2 Feb 2021
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Highly recommend signing up with Hayden

Highly recommend signing up with Hayden. Hayden is easy to communicate with and he listens to your thoughts and needs with no judgement. Very approachable and nothing is a problem as he helps you to work towards your goals.

| 2 Dec 2021
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