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Codependency Counselling NZ
Codependency is a dysfunctional relationship pattern where one person excessively relies on another for their sense of self and well-being, often sacrificing their own needs and boundaries in the process.
Are you struggling with Codependency and would you like to get some help how to deal with this? Therapy and counselling can help.
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Auckland

Hi, I’m Tamsin! I offer various therapy and coaching modalities geared towards emotional/psychological wellbeing, relationships, parenting and change. I work with both adults and teenagers, using a combination of mindfulness ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), CBT, Solutions Focused Therapy, EP, IFS (Internal Family Systems), Positive Psychology, Attachment Theory & Gottman Couples Therapy.
My aim is to combine the best of research-based methods with a compassionate and non-judgemental, whole-person, attitude.

I am a member of NZAC and focus on offering skills for regulating emotions and working towards healing/thriving. I have been instrumental in the mindfulness modalities for therapy and emotional regulation across Australasia since the mid 2000s. Improving relationship (even that which you have with yourself) is the path to thriving. My motto is: the past informed the present, but the NOW creates the future. There is no time like now to step up and grow your relationship wellbeing.

I am a member of NZAC and focus on offering skills for regulating emotions and working towards healing/thriving. I have been instrumental in the mindfulness modalities for therapy and emotional regulation across Australasia since the mid 2000s. Improving relationship (even that which you have with yourself) is the path to thriving. My motto is: the past informed the present, but the NOW creates the future. There is no time like now to step up and grow your relationship wellbeing.

I'm here to support children, young people, adults & families to work towards a more fulfilled life, for any of the issues that you face. I am non judgemental & caring. I will work with you to get the best results. Let's do this! "It is clear that Ngairini cares deeply for her clients. She provides a safe & warm environment, that allows for them to face into, & work through, life's challenges & difficulties. I would recommend her for anyone wanting to start the healing journey "- Mr.
Christchurch

I have a special interest and experience with cultural and neuro-diversity, trauma, anxiety, and depression. I tailor my therapeutic approach according to each client's individual needs and wants. Although I mainly draw from person-centered and solution-focused therapy modalities, I often integrate aspects of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). Supporting clients to change unhelpful patterns, and find connection and meaning in their life are key aspects of my counselling.

Kia ora, I’m Mari. I offer a gentle, trauma-informed, body-centered approach to experiential therapy rooted in Hakomi Somatic Psychotherapy, and further supported by Internal Family Systems (IFS).
This way of working can be especially supportive for those navigating trauma, grief, anger, confusion, and fear, feeling stuck in recurring patterns, longing to feel more at home in themselves, or seeking greater connection, presence, and ease in their lives.

Are you ready to reclaim your relationship with food and your body?
Do you feel overwhelmed by guilt and a lack of control around food? Are you exhausted from hating your body and obsessing over weight, letting these struggles take over your life?
Dunedin

I am a compassionate and experienced Licensed Counsellor (NZAC) and qualified Psychologist trained in Brazil, with over 30 years of diverse experience supporting adults through emotional challenges, life transitions and mental health concerns. As a bilingual practitioner (Portuguese–English), I provide trauma-informed, person-centred, Walk and Talk Therapy to promote wellbeing, balance and self-awareness. I offer support for stress, anxiety, depression, grief, homesickness, relationship issues and cross-cultural experience
Hamilton

Sarel – Registered Counsellor in Hamilton offering face-to-face support for trauma, relationship and sexual abuse, career and general mental health concerns. Using CBT, Person-Centred and Narrative Therapy, alongside Māori supervision and Te Whare Tapa Whā, Sarel provides a safe, welcoming space to explore emotions, build resilience, and support your journey toward healing and personal growth.
Invercargill

Penelope is a Registered Social Worker, Somatic Practitioner, and Yoga Teacher who integrates trauma-informed care, intuitive movement, and ritual to guide individuals and couples through healing, transformation, and growth.
Lower Hutt

--- Currently I only offer online therapy --- My name is Julie. I am a Holistic Counsellor, an intuitive and a spiritual mentor. My spiritual awareness and my background in the field of health have benefitted my appreciation for both tangible and mystical perceptions when it comes to physical and mental wellbeing.
Napier

Hi I'm Cha, originally from Malta but have been living in New Zealand for over 10 years now. I have been working as a counsellor for 4 years & I simply love it! I would love to hear you, understand you, & support you with whatever struggles you might be facing in life right now, without any judgement :)
Nelson

ACC Counselor/Social Worker. I provide a Sensitive Claims Counselling and a comprehensive range of ACC funded Social Work services. If you would benefit from linking with other health professionals and welfare organisations I will help with this too.
Paihia

I offer tailored counseling services for individuals, couples, and groups. My dedicated practice is committed to providing accessible and affordable solutions to help you overcome life's obstacles.
Rangiora

I offer a relaxed, safe and non-judgemental atmosphere where you can allow yourself to explore the challenges you face and find acceptance with the past and things that cant be changed. I will walk with you through your struggles and assist you in finding a sense of understanding and peace.
Rotorua

Juan is a counsellor and therapeutic coach who integrates counselling and coaching within the same journey. He supports clients to explore past and present experiences through counselling, while using neuro-based therapeutic coaching to focus on present and future goals. His approach combines emotional insight, nervous system regulation, and practical strategies to support healthier relationships, resilience, and sustainable change.
Wanaka

Welcome to Counselling – Your Path to Emotional Freedom Starts Here.
I specialise in individual and relationship counselling.
I believe in the power of connection, compassion, and change. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, anxious, lost, or stuck, you're not alone – and healing is possible.
Located in The Hub, just minutes from central Wanaka, our peaceful space offers a safe, supportive environment where you can explore your challenges and start creating the life you want to live
Wellington

Kia ora, I'm Rachel.
I’m a therapist and coach based in Wellington, Aotearoa NZ.
I use a broad range of modalities—including bioenergetic psychotherapy and hypnotherapy, to support people to enjoy more success, happiness and life energy.
My work is practical, grounded and effective. The most common thing I hear my clients say is: "you really listen to me."
Whanganui

Welcome — I’m Twané
I offer client-centred psychotherapy that blends my learnings from the Hakomi model, the Conversational Model, and EMDR to support mind-body healing. My approach is gentle, relational, and collaborative—inviting whatever needs attention to emerge at your own pace, helping you move toward greater clarity, freedom, and well-being.
Whangarei

I offer in-person counselling for individuals and couples from a cozy boathouse studio in central Whangarei, also worldwide online counselling in English, Swedish and Estonian. My therapy style is solution focused CBT mixed with other styles I find useful in personal growth.
My areas of interest include couples therapy, migration and cultural issues, stress and anxiety, relationship challenges, life transitions, communication difficulties and self-esteem concerns.
Online counselling and online therapy

In life we can all have times that are more challenging and painful than others and counselling can provide a safe space to work through those seasons.
I am a counsellor who is committed to providing that safe and confidential environment where people can feel heard and validated while working through their pain and struggles without judgement.

Hi, I'm Rhonda. I offer 3 very specialist services:
1) Somatic Trauma Informed Coach - Brainspotting
2) Narcissistic Abuse Specialist – Trauma Recovery Coach
3) Mental Health & Wellbeing Coach
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Therapies offered
- ACC Counselling
- ACT
- BWRT Therapy
- Career Counselling
- Child counselling
- Coaching
- Cognitive behavioural therapy
- Coherence Therapy
- Counselling
- Couples coaching
- Couples counselling
- Dialectical Behaviour Therapy
- EAP Counselling
- EMDR Therapy
- Emotional Freedom Techniques
- Family Therapy / Coaching
- Gestalttherapy
- Hakomi Psychotherapy
- Havening
- Hypnotherapy
- Internal Family Systems
- Mindfulness
- Narrative Therapy
- NLP
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Psychosynthesis counselling
- Psychotherapy
- Rapid Transformational Therapy
- Root Cause Therapy
- Solution focused therapy
- Somatic Experiencing
- Somatic Therapy
- Supervision
- Talking therapies
- Transactional Analysis
- WINZ Counselling
- Youth Counselling / Coaching
Types of issues
- Abuse
- Addiction
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Anxiety
- Being a perfectionist
- Being assertive
- Body image
- Bullying
- Burnout
- Codependency
- Communication
- Covid-19 Anxiety
- Depression
- Eating disorders
- Eating Problems
- Fear
- Feeling lonely
- Food addiction
- Grief & loss
- Hyperventilation
- Insecurity
- Jealousy
- Low self esteem
- Neurodiversity
- Obsessive compulsive disorder
- Pain management
- Panic attack
- Parenting
- Performance anxiety
- Phobia
- Post-traumatic stress disorder
- Relationship issues
- Self confidence
- Separation anxiety
- Setting boundaries
- Sleep problems
- Social phobia
- Stress
- Trauma
- Weight loss
- Workplace stress
- Worrying too much
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