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Expat Issues: Common Challenges of Living Abroad

Living abroad can be an exciting and life-changing experience—but it also comes with unique emotional and psychological challenges. Many expats struggle with feelings they didn’t expect before moving, from loneliness and homesickness to identity changes and stress.

 

Expats often face challenges related to adjustment, identity, relationships, and work.

 

On this page, you’ll find common issues that expats and internationals experience while living in a new country. Recognizing these challenges is often the first step toward feeling better and finding the right support.


🌏 Relocation & Expat Life

  • Relocation stress
  • Culture shock
  • Reverse culture shock
  • Homesickness
  • Adjustment to life in New Zealand
  • Immigration stress
  • Visa uncertainty stress


🧠Identity & Belonging

  • Loss of identity after moving abroad
  • Feeling disconnected / not belonging
  • Building a new social circle
  • Loneliness as an expat
  • Third culture identity


💼 Work & Career

  • Workplace culture differences
  • Career transition abroad
  • Overqualification / underemployment
  • Burnout in a new country
  • Job insecurity as a migrant


❤️ Relationships & Family

  • Intercultural relationship challenges
  • Expat couples counselling
  • Long-distance relationships
  • Family separation
  • Parenting abroad
  • Raising bilingual / multicultural children

 

🎓 Students & Young Expats

  • International student stress
  • Academic pressure abroad
  • Social isolation as a student
  • Adapting to a new education system


🧳 Practical / Situational Stress

  • Financial stress after relocation
  • Housing stress
  • Navigating healthcare system in NZ
  • Isolation in rural areas


🌿 NZ

  • Adjusting to life in remote or rural areas
  • Nature isolation / distance from cities
  • Seasonal depression (reverse seasons for Northern expats)
  • Work-life balance adjustment (NZ lifestyle shift)

 

If you're looking for professional support, you can also explore our expat therapy page to find therapists experienced in working with internationals.


Find therapists who understand expat challenges

The therapists below have experience working with expats and internationals, and support clients with challenges related to living abroad—such as adjustment, loneliness, identity, and cultural differences.

 

You can view profiles, compare approaches, and contact a therapist directly to find the right fit for your situation.

Many offer online sessions, making it easier to get support wherever you are.


Auckland

Counsellor - Auckland - Shlomit
Auckland
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Shlomit | Counsellor | Auckland (0 KM)
Counselling Albany - North Shore - Auckland, 7/1 William Pickering Drive - Rosedale - Albany, 0632, Auckland
✓ NZAC
✓ I also offer online therapy

I am a registered counsellor and trained educational psychologist with 14 years of experience supporting individuals of all ages. I work collaboratively to help clients navigate anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, life transitions, and relationship challenges. My approach is integrative and tailored to each person’s needs, drawing from psychotherapy, CBT, EMDR, ACT, and Narrative Therapy. I offer a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can feel heard, understood, and supported, and often see meaningful improvements aft

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Counsellor - Auckland - Ban
Auckland
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Ban | Counsellor | Auckland (0 KM)
Counselling East-Auckland, Auckland, 2013, Auckland
✓ Provisional member NZAC
✓ I also offer online therapy

Kia Ora and welcome,
Take the first step toward healing—counselling is your bridge to a brighter self.

It’s okay to be, and sometimes feel, a little messy. Life is messy and I know this isn’t easy!
But you don’t have to do it alone, so I am so glad you are exploring options to support yourself.
You deserve this!

If you are struggling and need someone to talk too, you are in the right space.
I work with individuals, teens and parents/families as well as ethnic minorities.

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Psychosynthesis Counselling - Auckland - Chieko
Auckland
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Chieko | Psychosynthesis Counselling | Auckland (0 KM)
166 Kitchener Road, Milford, Auckland
✓ NZAC ✓ PAnzA ✓ ACC
✓ I also offer online therapy

I provide a warm, safe and confidential space for you to share and express your feelings, thoughts, and difficulties in your life.

I support you in the areas of: anxiety/depression, self-esteem/confidence, balance in your life, personal development, problematic use of alcohol and drugs, anger management and the psychological side of Autism and Asperger’s, OCD, ADD, ADHD and more.

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Counsellor - Auckland - Victor
Auckland
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Victor | Counsellor | Auckland (0 KM)
Counselling Parnell - Auckland, 205 Parnell Road - Parnell, 1052, Auckland
✓ Provisional member NZAC
✓ I also offer online therapy

I am a counsellor who values and respects each person's unique experiences and perspectives. My approach focuses on creating a safe, empathetic space where clients can freely explore their thoughts and emotions, fostering growth, healing, and meaningful change.

Review: “I highly recommend booking a session with him”
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counsellor - Auckland - Anna
Auckland
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Anna | counsellor | Auckland (0 KM)
500 South Titirangi Road, 0604, Auckland
✓ NZAC
✓ I also offer online therapy

I am a registered counsellor (NZAC) who creates a safe, confidential space where clients can explore their emotions, uncover inner strength, and navigate life with courage and self-awareness. Calm, patient, and grounded, I take a person-centred, collaborative approach, supporting individuals, couples, and whānau both in person and online. Originally from Kiel, Germany, I have lived in Spain and New Zealand, experiences that have deepened my understanding of identity, belonging, and human connection. I am a mother of three,

trauma | grief, loss, life transition | identity | anxiety | ...
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Counselling - Auckland - Emma
Auckland
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Emma | Counselling | Auckland (0 KM)
Counselling North Shore - Auckland, Peter Terrace - Castor Bay - North Shore, 0620, Auckland
✓ NZAC
✓ I also offer online therapy

You may want to talk to someone to sort things out. You can live a better life. And you don't have to take on everything alone.

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Blenheim

 MNZAC Counsellor, NZQA Master in Clinical Psychology, EMDR Certified Practitioner - Blenheim - Paola
Blenheim
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Paola | MNZAC Counsellor, NZQA Master in Clinical Psychology, EMDR Certified Practitioner | Blenheim (0 KM)
Therapist Blenheim, 5 Holdaway Street - Riversdale, 7201, Blenheim
✓ EMDRNZ ✓ NZAC
✓ I also offer online therapy

Kia ora, I'm an Italian therapist and I offer supervision for professionals and trauma specialised therapy for adults and couples. Sessions can be held in English, Spanish, French and Italian.

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Christchurch

Counsellor - Christchurch - Sharon
Christchurch
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Sharon | Counsellor | Christchurch (0 KM)
22 Gracefield Avenue, 8013, Christchurch
✓ Provisional member NZAC
✓ I also offer online therapy

I provide a calm and compassionate space where you can pause, reflect, and feel genuinely supported. Together, we can explore challenges such as anxiety, stress, low mood, past trauma, or questions around cultural identity and belonging. Through our work together, my aim is to help deepen your understanding of yourself and support your journey toward healing and meaningful personal growth.

Anxiety | Depression and Low Mood | Loss and Grief | Cultural Transistions | ...
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Creative arts therapist (art therapist) - Christchurch - Nuraishah
Christchurch
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Nuraishah | Creative arts therapist (art therapist) | Christchurch (0 KM)
The Registry Building, corner of Worcester Boulevard & Montreal Street, Level 1, 8013, Christchurch
✓ ANZACATA
✓ I also offer online therapy

I'm a Christchurch-based art therapist who is currently seeing adult individuals with life challenges such as trauma, grief, loss and anxiety.

trauma | grief | loss | anxiety | ...
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Somatic and Psychodynamic Psychotherapy - Christchurch - Joanna
Christchurch
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Joanna | Somatic and Psychodynamic Psychotherapy | Christchurch (0 KM)
Somatic Mindful Psychotherapy Christchurch, Heathcote Valley, Christchurch
✓ ANZAP ✓ APANZ ✓ PBANZ

Hi, I am Joanna, a psychotherapist in Heathcote, Christchurch. I provide a holistic approach to psychotherapy that integrates psychodynamic and somatic approaches.

My goal is to create a safe and nurturing space where you can feel safe, heard and supported throughout your journey towards achieving mental, emotional, and physical well-being.

Visit my profile to learn more or contact me if you have questions.

complex trauma | body mind integration | brainspotting | mindfulness | ...
Review: “I can't recommend Joanna highly enough”
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Dunedin

Counsellor - Dunedin - Shanti
Dunedin
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Shanti | Counsellor | Dunedin (0 KM)
Counselling Dunedin Central, 7 Bond Street - Level 1, Consultancy House, 9016, Dunedin
✓ NZAC ✓ NZAPP
✓ I also offer online therapy

I have been in practice for more than 20 years and specialise in providing a wide range of effective therapeutic techniques for individuals, couples and families.
I am passionate about the work I do and I am committed in providing beneficial therapy for clients affected by mental health related issues such as depression, anxiety, stress, phobia. trauma and grief.
I utilise a range of modalities that include Neuroscience evidence based techniques like BWRT, Brief Solution focused therapy, CBT and Mindfulness.

anxiety, panic attacks | depression stress | phobia, trauma | Reactive feelings/behaviours | ...
Review: “I would recommend her to anyone”
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Hamilton

Counsellor - Hamilton - Sarel
Hamilton
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Sarel | Counsellor | Hamilton (0 KM)
71 Seddon Road, 3204, Hamilton
✓ NZAC ✓ NZAPP
✓ I also offer online therapy

Sarel – Registered Counsellor in Hamilton offering face-to-face support for trauma, relationship and sexual abuse, career and general mental health concerns. Using CBT, Person-Centred and Narrative Therapy, alongside Māori supervision and Te Whare Tapa Whā, Sarel provides a safe, welcoming space to explore emotions, build resilience, and support your journey toward healing and personal growth. I am ACC registered.

Anxiety | Burnout | Grief | Loss | ...
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Clinical Psychologist - Hamilton - Pani
Hamilton
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Pani | Clinical Psychologist | Hamilton (0 KM)
191 Peachgrove Road - Claudelands, 3214, Hamilton
✓ NZPB ✓ NZPsS
✓ I also offer online therapy

I am a clinical psychologist with 29 years of experience, originally from South Africa and practicing as a clinical psychologist in New Zealand for the past six years.

My interests include:
* Problems with Mood -- Major Depression, Dysthymia, Bipolar Disorder, etc.
* Problems with Anxiety -- Panic Disorder, GAD, OCD, PTSD, etc.
* Bereavement
* Stress
* Relationship Challenges
* Intimacy issues, especially women's challenges (e.g., menopause, infertility, etc)

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Integrative therapist - Hamilton - Karpagam
Hamilton
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Karpagam | Integrative therapist | Hamilton (0 KM)
Silverdale, 3216, Hamilton
✓ NZAC
✓ I also offer online therapy

I am an integrative therapist with 12 years of working experience with adults, children, families, adolescents, ethnic groups, pregnant women (antenatal and postnatal). I offer counselling in English, Tamil and Hindi.

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Lincoln

Counsellor | PMNZCCA - Lincoln - Sharon
Lincoln
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Sharon | Counsellor | PMNZCCA | Lincoln (0 KM)
Southfield Drive - Selwyn, 7608, Lincoln
✓ Provisional member NZCCA
✓ I also offer online therapy

Welcome to a place of healing, growth, and support. I offer a safe, confidential space to work through life’s toughest challenges.

Whether you're struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, addiction, grief, or something else, I am here to help you move forward.

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Lower Hutt

Holistic Counsellor & Practitioner - Lower Hutt - Julie
Lower Hutt
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Julie | Holistic Counsellor & Practitioner | Lower Hutt (0 KM)
Lower Hutt
✓ IICT
✓ I also offer online therapy

--- Currently I only offer online therapy --- My name is Julie. I am a Holistic Counsellor, an intuitive and a spiritual mentor. My spiritual awareness and my background in the field of health have benefitted my appreciation for both tangible and mystical perceptions when it comes to physical and mental wellbeing.

Somatic therapy | Trauma-informed work | Inner child healing | Intergenerational work | ...
Review: “I’m very grateful for the support”
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Oakura

Counselling - Oakura - Ngairini
Oakura
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Ngairini | Counselling | Oakura (0 KM)
Tasman Parade 1, 4314, Oakura
✓ ACA ✓ NZAC
✓ I also offer online therapy

I'm here to support children, young people, adults & families to work towards a more fulfilled life, for any of the issues that you face. I am non judgemental & caring. I will work with you to get the best results. Let's do this! "It is clear that Ngairini cares deeply for her clients. She provides a safe & warm environment, that allows for them to face into, & work through, life's challenges & difficulties. I would recommend her for anyone wanting to start the healing journey "- Mr.

Anxiety | Burnout | Depression | Grief | ...
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Paihia

Counsellor - Paihia - Masha
Paihia
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Masha | Counsellor | Paihia (0 KM)
Counselling Paihia, R4/88 Marsden Road, 0200, Paihia
✓ Provisional member NZAC
✓ I also offer online therapy

You're welcome for individual and couples counselling.
I am committed to providing a safe and understanding environment where you can explore your thoughts and feelings. Let’s work together towards your well-being.

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Rangiora

Counsellor - Rangiora - Eric
Rangiora
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Eric | Counsellor | Rangiora (0 KM)
156 Ashley Street, 7400, Rangiora
✓ Provisional member NZCCA
✓ I also offer online therapy

I am a counsellor offering a calm, grounded space where you can slow down, reflect, and feel understood. I work with anxiety, stress, relationship challenges, depression and life transitions. My approach is thoughtful and collaborative, helping you make sense of patterns, reconnect with your strengths, and move forward with greater clarity and confidence.

Trauma and PTSD | Depression and low-mood | Couple and relational conflict | Anxiety | ...
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Rotorua

Counsellor - Rotorua - Yvette
Rotorua
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Yvette | Counsellor | Rotorua (0 KM)
Counselling Rotorua, 1164 Eruera Street, 3010, Rotorua
✓ NZAC
✓ I also offer online therapy

Hi, my name is Yvette.

Making the first contact to talk with someone can often be a daunting and overwhelming experience.
I can assure you that once you take that step you will feel a sense of relief, vulnerability, but empowered too.

Anxiety | Grief | ...
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Tauranga

Counsellor - Tauranga - Sarel
Tauranga
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Sarel | Counsellor | Tauranga (0 KM)
556 Cameron Road 1st floor, suite 6, 3112, Tauranga
✓ NZAC ✓ NZAPP
✓ I also offer online therapy

Sarel – Registered Counsellor in Tauranga offering face-to-face support for trauma, relationship and sexual abuse, career and general mental health concerns. Using CBT, Person-Centred and Narrative Therapy, alongside Māori supervision and Te Whare Tapa Whā, Sarel provides a safe, welcoming space to explore emotions, build resilience, and support your journey toward healing and personal growth. I am ACC registered.

Anxiety | Burnout | Grief | Loss | ...
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Wellington

Hypnotherapist - Wellington - Violaine
Wellington
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Violaine | Hypnotherapist | Wellington (0 KM)
272B Karori Road, 6012, Wellington
✓ NZAPH
✓ I also offer online therapy

Are you feeling your strong will for change is not enough to overcome some issues in your life? As a hypnotherapist, I can help you overcome the subconscious beliefs and blocks that refrain you from attaining your optimal wellbeing and best version of yourself.

Phobias | Self-sabotage | Anxiety | Smoking cessation | ...
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Whanganui

Counsellor / Therapist - Whanganui - Julie
Whanganui
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Julie | Counsellor / Therapist | Whanganui (0 KM)
Therapy Whanganui, Whanganui
✓ I also offer online therapy

Kia ora koutou! Julie is my name. I aim to be a guide, to support you in the navigation of challenging life issues, towards resolution, comfort and peace.

I am available to support clients with issues including (not limited to): anxiety, depression, PTSD, identity exploration, self-esteem, direction and body image.

Review: “An amazing therapist”
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Whangarei

Counselling - Whangarei - Jana
Whangarei
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Jana | Counselling | Whangarei (0 KM)
Counselling Whangarei, 10/212 Riverside Drive, 0110, Whangarei
✓ IAC ✓ NZAPP
✓ I also offer online therapy

I offer in-person counselling for individuals and couples from a cozy boathouse studio in central Whangarei, also worldwide online counselling in English, Swedish and Estonian. My therapy style is solution focused CBT mixed with other styles I find useful in personal growth.

My areas of interest include couples therapy, migration and cultural issues, stress and anxiety, relationship challenges, life transitions, communication difficulties and self-esteem concerns.

Review: “I couldn't recommend Jana and her services more.”
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Online counselling and online therapy

Counselling - Existential analysis - New Zealand - Rohit
Online
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Rohit | Counselling - Existential analysis | Online (0 KM)
Online Counselling & Psychotherapy
✓ ACC ✓ Provisional member NZAC
✓ I also offer online therapy

I’m an Existential therapist, and I offer individual counselling and psychotherapy. I like supporting people in activating their connection to themselves and accompanying them through challenging life situations. Additionally, I am drawn to Eastern Philosophy, mindfulness, and interconnectedness.

Grief | Anxiety | Depression | Change | ...
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Counsellor - New Zealand - Angela
Online
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Angela | Counsellor | Online (0 KM)
Online Counselling
✓ NZAC
✓ I also offer online therapy

I'm a compassionate and professional counsellor with 25 years of experience of helping people. I have successfully treated people with issues that range from minor to chronic problems, such as anxiety, depression, difficult life transitions, panic attacks, PTSD, complex trauma, relationship issues, low self esteem, sleep difficulties, stress and parenting issues.

I work fluently in English and also in German.

Trauma | PTSD | Anxiety / Panic attacks | Depression | ...
Review: “I would definitely highly recommend Angela”
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