Relationship Counselling NZ
What is relationship counselling?
Relationship counselling (which can also be referred to as couples counselling) is a form of therapy that looks to improve communication and resolve issues within an (intimate) relationship.
In contrast to counselling for relationship issues, which can be undertaken solely through individual sessions, relationship counselling is a term applied to talk therapy for two people within a relationship.
Some of the work you do will take place within your counselling sessions themselves. However many couples counsellors will also ask you to carry out 'homework'.
Typically your counsellor will ask you either to do a task or discuss something specific when you get home. During your next session you will get the chance to talk about your homework, discuss any challenges you came up against and how the experience made you both feel.
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Therapists and counsellors using relationship counselling


Rating 5 out of 5
The average rating of all therapists and counsellors using relationship counselling is 5 out of 5 stars based on 22 reviews.
Ashburton

My name is Anna Arrowsmith and I am a Qualified Counsellor and hold full NZAC Membership. I have been in private practice for over 10 years in the Mid Canterbury area. You're welcome for individual (child, youth & adult) counselling and relationship counselling.
Auckland

I work with adults, couples, young people and families. Tailored counselling that focuses specifically on YOU - what works for you.
I have practiced in a lot of women’s pre/post natal, menopausal stages for women.
I am also an ADHD centric counsellor, working with people (diagnosed or undiagnosed), offer specialist ADHD couples therapy.

Hi, I’m Tamsin! I offer various therapy and coaching modalities geared towards emotional/psychological wellbeing, relationships, parenting and change. I work with both adults and teenagers, using a combination of mindfulness ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), CBT, Solutions Focused Therapy, IFT (Internal Family Systems), Positive Psychology, Attachment Theory and Gottman therapy.
My aim is to combine the best of research-based methods with a compassionate and non-judgemental, whole-person, attitude.

Hi there, I’m Deanna and I have a real passion for helping people through the many challenges we face as humans in a way that best works for each individual. I work with adults, teens, children and their parents, supporting clients through meaningful change towards living a more satisfying and happier life.

I work with couples looking to change their relationship and always invite couples to do the following:
Imagine your relationship being one where you both feel valued, safe, connected, autonomous and in each other’s care. Imagine being a two-person system with shared values and goals.

--- I only offer online counselling ---
Hi! I am Phil, an experienced counsellor and family therapist in Birkdale, Auckland. I see individuals, couples and families.
If you are at a stage in life of feeling that things aren’t quite how they should be. Let me reassure you there is always light at the end of the tunnel.

I offer non-judgemental and effective coaching and counselling, helping you gain the insights and teaching you the skills to help you deal with what you are facing.

I provide counselling for people aged 13 upwards, including individuals, families, and adolescents.
I work with people who are recovering from trauma, having relationship issues, are looking for life development or change, are dealing with anxiety, depression, grief, anger, work and life stresses, and maternal mental health.
I welcome people from a diverse range of backgrounds, values, beliefs and cultures.

Hi there, when you decide to embark on a path of personal growth and self discovery, we are here to support you.
Together, let's explore your thoughts, emotions, and experiences with the goal of working towards a positive change.
Blenheim

I work with people who are recovering from trauma, having relationship issues, are looking for life development or change, are dealing with anxiety, depression, grief, anger, work and life stresses, and maternal mental health.

I am a Blenheim based practitioner and I enjoy working with adults and couples, nurturing a collaborative relationship to support you in discovering personal insight and healing.
Christchurch

I hold a gentle space, listen deeply, and facilitate a natural healing process that allows your heart to lead and your inner wisdom to shine through. A process that gives you a choice and the potential to experience greater connection, insight, release, healing, and freedom. I am with you every step of the way–feeling what you feel–helping you hold your heart open with what can be confusing, overwhelming, scary or painful–working towards greater self-acceptance and self-love to recover your authentic Self.

Living an extraordinary and joyful life is about ending the mental suffering when events outside of your control occur.
With training and qualifications in Counselling, Psychology, and NLP, I will empower you to manage and overcome grief, trauma, anxiety, and phobias; so that you will restore and enjoy confidence, self-esteem, health, well-being, and better relationships.

My name is Cate, and I work as a counsellor here in Christchurch. I offer Individual counselling for all life issues such as grief, anxiety and depression, trauma, support for living with chronic health issues, relationship issues and all the things that make life challenging at times. I am an ally for those identifying as LGBTQAI. l I work both face to face and online (within New Zealand).
Dunedin

I specialise in providing a wide range of effective therapeutic techniques for children and adolescents, adults and families.
I am passionate about the work I do and I am committed in providing beneficial therapy for clients affected by mental health related issues such as depression, anxiety, stress, trauma and grief.
Solution focused therapy, CBT and Mindfulness are some of the therapies, that I would apply when working with clients.
Hamilton

I am an integrative therapist with 10 years of working experience with adults, children, families, adolescents, ethnic groups, pregnant women (antenatal and postnatal). I offer counselling in English, Tamil and Hindi.

Hi, my name is Michelle.
I am a registered clinical psychologist with over 15 years of experience. I draw on therapeutic skills learnt over the past 15 years and work from a holistic perspective to assist my clients with various life challenges. Coming to terms with the past, improved coping in the present and empowering you for the future (to reach your full potential) is something I look forward to assisting you with.
Hastings

Hi, my name is Troy, I have been working as a social worker/therapist for now 18 years in New Zealand.
I have worked with numerous individuals, couples, and groups of all ages and ethnicities.
I am an open, honest, easy-going, and non-judgemental person. I understand life can be challenging, and difficult. Therefore this is where therapy can be useful.
Invercargill

Stacey is a certified life coach with expertise in anger management, relationship counseling, trauma recovery, and addiction support. With years of experience in her field, Stacey has helped numerous clients achieve their personal and professional goals, overcome their emotional struggles, and build healthier relationships. Stacey's approach to coaching is holistic and client-centered, meaning she tailors her strategies and techniques to suit each individual's unique needs and circumstances. Whether you're struggling with an
Kaeo

I'm here to support young people, couples and families to work towards a more fulfilled life and for any of the issues that they face.
Lower Hutt

-Counselling Petone - Lower Hutt: I'm a compassionate and professional counsellor with more than 17 years of experience of helping people. I have successfully treated people with issues that range from minor to chronic problems, such as anxiety, depression, difficult life transitions, panic attacks, ptsd, relationship issues, low self esteem, sleep difficulties, stress, trauma.
Mapua

My name is Jo. I'm an experienced, certified and supportive counsellor in Mapua. I'm a registered member of New Zealand Association of Counsellors (MNZAC). People have been my focus throughout my career and am passionate about supporting people to be the very best that they can be.
Masterton

I offer professional and confidential counselling for individuals, couples, and families. I also offer Mindfulness classes and coaching. People seek counselling for many different reasons. Some of the issues that bring people to counselling are grief, loss, stress and anxiety, depression, relationships, workplace bullying, trauma.
Motueka

My name is Jo. I'm an experienced, certified and supportive counsellor in Mapua. I'm a registered member of New Zealand Association of Counsellors (MNZAC). People have been my focus throughout my career and am passionate about supporting people to be the very best that they can be.
Mount Maunganui

Hey! Are you aged 18 to 40 and want to transform your life? My clients typically turn to me when they are feeling stuck, anxious, depressed, they feel like crap and they don’t know what to do next. I know how hard it is to reach out. You should be proud of yourself for taking the first step. I consider it the privilege of a lifetime helping my clients breathe a little easier and create lives worth living.
Nelson

My name is Mark, counsellor in Nelson. Ik work both with individuals and couples. I have a strong interest in trauma work and all the associated issues that surround this.
For couples I offer Imago relationship therapy, which is a form of couples counseling and coaching.

Hi, my name is Jean. I'm a counsellor in Nelson and Stoke. I work with individuals, couples and small therapeutic groups. I've been counselling since 2008 and have a private practice in Nelson since 2012.

My name is Bec. I can help with suffering from the effects of grief, trauma (past or present), abuse, anxiety or depression. I use Imago therapy with couples.
New Plymouth

--- Currently I'm only offering online therapy ---
The present moment is all there is.
Releasing the past without dredging it up can be easy and fast.

My name is Tony, counsellor in New Plymouth.
I have worked in social services for over 20yrs. I am well skilled in working with individuals or couples to find their direction.
I have been involved with complex mental health, addictions, co-existing problems, high risk family harm and management of community agencies and teams.
Palmerston North

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Thank you for considering me to work with you. I am passionate about working with couples, respecting the uniqueness of each person and each relationship.
I work collaboratively in a safe non-judgmental way in a calm environment.
Paraparaumu

My name is Keri and I am an experienced Counsellor and Human Performance Coach.

My name is Angela Claridge. I have almost 20 years experience in the mental health sector. From my practice Angela Claridge Wellness on the Kapiti Coast, I support people to positively and proactively address stuck points, distress and disruptive behaviours in their lives, to enable them to live fully, regain control and find joy.
Queenstown

Currently not taking new referrals
Kia ora, my name is Kathryn. I’ve worked in this field for over 20 years, helping people with depression and anxiety, relationship issues, addictions and substance abuse, and trauma amongst many other issues. I'd love to hear from you.

Hi, I’m Olivia. I’m a certified sexuality, love and relationship coach on a mission to help people experience the full beauty that exists in loving and being loved by another.
I work with both individuals and couples on their unique desires around sex, love and relationships.
Raglan

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Life can be challenging.
It’s not always easy to navigate the ups and downs that come our way. Sometimes, despite our best efforts, we find ourselves stuck in a rut, struggling to move forward. Admitting that we need help can be a big step, but it’s an important one.
Kia ora, My name is Etai, and I’ve been helping people create positive results in their lives, including lifting depression, easing anxiety and resolving trauma, since
Rotorua

My name is Anthony (Tony), experienced therapist.
You're welcome for counselling, emdr-therapy and couples counselling in Rotorua.

Debbie (Debs)
I am a trained Master NLP Practitioner in my private practice for Personal Transformation Therapy & Counselling.
I have trained as a Counsellor with Te Pu Wananga o Anamata and currently MNZAC
I have a passion to provide opportunities for people to develop personally and professionally to create their best life.
Navigating through challenges and celebrating their successes.
Are you curious to what your potential may be
I look forward to hearing your dreams and aspirations and realising them.

Hi, my name is Yvette.
Making the first contact to talk with someone can often be a daunting and overwhelming experience.
I can assure you that once you take that step you will feel a sense of relief, vulnerability, but empowered too.
Stoke

Hi, my name is Jean. I'm a counsellor in Stoke and Nelson. I work with individuals, couples and small therapeutic groups. I've been counselling since 2008 and have a private practice since 2012.
Tairua

My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, life coach and hypnotherapist. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, hypnotherapy, couples counselling and family therapy.
Tauranga

In life we can all have times that are more challenging and painful than others and counselling can provide a safe space to work through those seasons.
I am a counsellor who is committed to providing that safe and confidential environment where people can feel heard and validated while working through their pain and struggles without judgement.
Te Anau

My name is Monty. I provide counselling to individuals, couples and families in the Fiordland area.
Thames

My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, life coach and hypnotherapist. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, hypnotherapy, couples counselling and family therapy.
Upper Hutt

My name is Athena Hemming. Although I qualified as a psychologist 35 years ago, I now feel my work is more accurately described by the words "Heart and Mind Coach".
I've found that a sense of inner peace, of feeling comfortable in your own skin, is present when heart, mind, body and spirit are all aligned and moving together.
It is hard to say this stuff about yourself (isn't it?) but as well as bringing a wealth of personal experience to each session, I bring compassion, intuition and a great sense of humour.
Waihi

My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, life coach and hypnotherapist. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, hypnotherapy, couples counselling and family therapy.
Waipu

I offer counselling/therapy to adults, adolescents, and young children.
Anxiety, Depression, Grief & Loss, Emotional distress, Change & Transitions, Stress, Lifestyle and Health Issues.
Wellington

Hi I'm Simon and I provide professional therapy, coaching and education to people that want to free themselves from the issues they are experiencing.
I encompass elements of Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT), NLP, CBT, Psychotherapy, Neuroscience, Neuro Plasticity and Hypnotherapy

Hi, I'm Catherine, counsellor and career coach in Wellington. In my practice I support people to positively address challenges in their lives, including their career, to enable them to live with an empowered attitude and find the joy and fulfillment they are striving for.
Whanganui

My office is based is Whanganui and I also offer online counselling.
Although I am available for general counselling, depression, anxiety, grief, low self esteem etc., I specialise in counselling those who have a chronic illness or chronic pain.
I also work with couples teaching them ways to improve their romantic relationships.

Hi, I'm Catherine, counsellor and career coach in Whanganui. In my practice I support people to positively address challenges in their lives, including their career, to enable them to live with an empowered attitude and find the joy and fulfillment they are striving for.
Whangarei

Hi, my name is Colin, counsellor in Whangarei. I have over 30 years experience working with individuals (children, youth, adults), families and couples.
We all experience difficulties at times in our lives that cause us to struggle, lose hope and feel like our life is out of control. I believe it is possible to gain the strength needed to face our issues, the hope to move forward and the balance to feel in control of our lives again. Counselling can assist in helping you to overcome life’s hurdles in a positive way.
Online counselling and online therapy

Hi! I am Phil, an experienced online counsellor, online family therapist, and online coach in New Zealand (Auckland). I see individuals, couples and families. I see clients in person in Birkdale and Remuera and also via skype.
If you are at a stage in life of feeling that things aren’t quite how they should be. Let me reassure you there is always light at the end of the tunnel.

My name is Julie. I am a Holistic Counsellor, an intuitive and a spiritual mentor. My spiritual awareness and my background in the field of health have benefitted my appreciation for both tangible and mystical perceptions when it comes to physical and mental wellbeing.

As a warm and passionate Psychologist, I provide non-judgemental and authentic therapy to ensure my clients feel supported and valued. Servicing clients of all age groups (children, adolescents, adults)

Online Relationship Coaching NZ. Hi, I’m Olivia. I’m a certified sexuality, love and relationship coach on a mission to help people experience the full beauty that exists in loving and being loved by another.
I work with both individuals and couples on their unique desires around sex, love and relationships.

Hi there, when you decide to embark on a path of personal growth and self discovery, we are here to support you.
Together, let's explore your thoughts, emotions, and experiences with the goal of working towards a positive change.

I offer non-judgemental and effective counselling and coaching, helping you gain insights and teaching you the skills to help you deal with what you are facing.

Hi, I'm Catherine, online counsellor and online career coach. I support people to positively address challenges in their lives, including their career, to enable them to live with an empowered attitude and find the joy and fulfillment they are striving for. I have been doing skype sessions with for therapy sessions and career counselling.
Online counselling - online therapy - online coaching

My name is Tony, face to face online counsellor in New Zealand.
I have worked in social services for over 20yrs. I am well skilled in working with individuals or couples to find their direction.
I work a lot with addiction issues, anger management, family harm risk situations, trauma. But you're also welcome for general counselling, life coaching and relationship counselling.
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- Narrative Therapy
- Naturopathy
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- Play Therapy
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- Relationship Coaching
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- Root Cause Therapy
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