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What is relationship counselling?
Relationship counselling (which can also be referred to as couples counselling) is a form of therapy that looks to improve communication and resolve issues within an (intimate) relationship.
In contrast to counselling for relationship issues, which can be undertaken solely through individual sessions, relationship counselling is a term applied to talk therapy for two people within a relationship.
Some of the work you do will take place within your counselling sessions themselves. However many couples counsellors will also ask you to carry out 'homework'.
Typically your counsellor will ask you either to do a task or discuss something specific when you get home. During your next session you will get the chance to talk about your homework, discuss any challenges you came up against and how the experience made you both feel.
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Ashburton
My name is Anna and I am a Qualified Counsellor and hold full NZAC Membership. I have been in private practice for over 10 years in the Mid Canterbury area. You're welcome for individual (child, youth & adult) counselling and relationship counselling.
Auckland
I am an open, caring and positive Therapist. I hold a Bachelor of Science, a Post Graduate Diploma and a Masters Degree in Psychology.
I am trained in Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Acceptance Commitment Therapy, Compassion Focussed Therapy, Relaxation Training, Mindfulness Training, Exposure Therapy and Trauma Focussed Cognitive Behaviour Therapy.
Hi, I’m Tamsin! I offer various therapy and coaching modalities geared towards emotional/psychological wellbeing, relationships, parenting and change. I work with both adults and teenagers, using a combination of mindfulness ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), CBT, Solutions Focused Therapy, EP, IFS (Internal Family Systems), Positive Psychology, Attachment Theory & Gottman Couples Therapy.
My aim is to combine the best of research-based methods with a compassionate and non-judgemental, whole-person, attitude.
Hi, I’m Tamsin! I offer various therapy and coaching modalities geared towards emotional/psychological wellbeing, relationships, parenting and change. I work with both adults and teenagers, using a combination of mindfulness ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), CBT, Solutions Focused Therapy, EP, IFS (Internal Family Systems), Positive Psychology, Attachment Theory & Gottman Couples Therapy.
My aim is to combine the best of research-based methods with a compassionate and non-judgemental, whole-person, attitude.
Are you feeling distress from a current or past relationship ?
If you are then look no further. I am an experienced Counsellor and Family Therapist.
I offer packages of Counselling sessions online via zoom.
I can help you by providing a healing trusting space to work through your distress and then to find more empowered communication styles to build better relationships and a better future.
Hi there, I’m Deanna and I have a real passion for helping people through the many challenges we face as humans in a way that best works for each individual. I work with adults, teens, children and their parents, supporting clients through meaningful change towards living a more satisfying and happier life.
I am an accomplished, skilled and committed counsellor who has extensive experience in working with couples and individuals. I support people with relationships, separation, family, parenting, stress, anxiety and personal development.
I work with individuals, couples, families and people aged 13 years and over. People recovering from trauma, having relationship issues, estrangement from children, childhood emotional neglect, looking for life development or change, dealing with anxiety, depression, grief, anger, work and life stresses, and maternal mental health. I have a particular interest in working with people suffering from trauma associated with SCAD.
I welcome people from a diverse range of backgrounds, values, beliefs and cultures.
You may want to talk to someone to sort things out. You can live a better life. And you don't have to take on everything alone.
I’m here to understand your life’s intricacies and offer an integrative approach to therapy. With a master’s degree in Psychology and ongoing training in Depth Psychotherapy, I draw inspiration from various therapies, including CBT, Positive Psychology, and Mindfulness.
My name is Sara.
I offer clinically informed Counselling to help anyone experiencing depression, anxiety, addiction, mental illness, trauma, marriage stress, or is simply overwhelmed by life.
I have 7 years of experience offering Trauma and Addictions Counselling as well as a specialty in counselling for women who have experienced abuse.
I also offer Life Coaching sessions for anyone making big life changes or anyone trying to organize their many priorities and commitments and feels overwhelmed.
Hi there, when you decide to embark on a path of personal growth and self discovery, we are here to support you.
Together, let's explore your thoughts, emotions, and experiences with the goal of working towards a positive change.
Blenheim
Kia ora, I'm an Italian therapist and I offer supervision for professionals and trauma specialised therapy for adults and couples. Sessions can be held in English, Spanish, French and Italian.
I work with people who are recovering from trauma, having relationship issues, are looking for life development or change, are dealing with anxiety, depression, grief, anger, work and life stresses, and maternal mental health.
I am a Blenheim based practitioner and I enjoy working with adults and couples, nurturing a collaborative relationship to support you in discovering personal insight and healing.
Cambridge
My counselling approach is centred around shared goals, with a focus on inspiring positive change and enhancing the overall quality of life for individuals and families.
I take pride in contributing positively to the well-being of families, children, and individuals, emphasizing the significance of healthy relationships, effective communication, and emotional well-being in my counselling practice.
Christchurch
Living an extraordinary and joyful life is about ending the mental suffering when events outside of your control occur.
With training and qualifications in Counselling, Psychology, and NLP, I will empower you to manage and overcome anxiety, grief, trauma, phobias, and low moods; so that you will restore and enjoy confidence, self-esteem, health, well-being, and better relationships.
Life/Work Balance Coaching for Self Employed Dad’s. Supporting your balance with Mental health – Wellbeing – Business – Relationship & family life. Are you struggling to find balance, joy, or success amongst the demands and responsibilities of supporting your family, maintaining your relationship, being self-employed, managing staff, and attending to your own mental health and well being? I'll help you to destress, reconnect, refocus, revive. Tools and practices to cultivate deeper self-awareness and access your
My name is Cate, and I work as a counsellor here in Christchurch. I offer Individual counselling for all life issues such as grief, anxiety and depression, trauma, support for living with chronic health issues, relationship issues and all the things that make life challenging at times. I am an ally for those identifying as LGBTQAI. l I work both face to face and online (within New Zealand). I am also an ACC Counsellor
Dannevirke
Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside clients who are navigating major life transitions, coping with mental health challenges, or seeking greater self-awareness.
I also welcome couples who are interested in relationship counselling.
Dunedin
Hi, I am a registered counsellor with Dapaanz, also accredited clinical supervisor.
Since 1996, I’ve helped my clients break through the obstacles that seem to be holding them back in life.
I specialise in providing a wide range of effective therapeutic techniques for children and adolescents, adults and families.
I am passionate about the work I do and I am committed in providing beneficial therapy for clients affected by mental health related issues such as depression, anxiety, stress, trauma and grief.
Solution focused therapy, CBT and Mindfulness are some of the therapies, that I would apply when working with clients.
Feilding
Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside clients who are navigating major life transitions, coping with mental health challenges, or seeking greater self-awareness.
I also welcome couples who are interested in relationship counselling.
Hastings
Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside clients who are navigating major life transitions, coping with mental health challenges, or seeking greater self-awareness.
I also welcome couples who are interested in relationship counselling.
Hi, my name is Troy, I have been working as a social worker/therapist for now 18 years in New Zealand.
I have worked with numerous individuals, couples, and groups of all ages and ethnicities.
I am an open, honest, easy-going, and non-judgemental person. I understand life can be challenging, and difficult. Therefore this is where therapy can be useful.
Invercargill
Stacey is a certified life coach with expertise in anger management, relationship counseling, trauma recovery, and addiction support. With years of experience in her field, Stacey has helped numerous clients achieve their personal and professional goals, overcome their emotional struggles, and build healthier relationships. Stacey's approach to coaching is holistic and client-centered, meaning she tailors her strategies and techniques to suit each individual's unique needs and circumstances. Whether you're struggling with an
Lower Hutt
I am a Holistic Counsellor, an Intuitive & a spiritual mentor. My spiritual awareness and my background in the field of health have benefitted my appreciation for both tangible and mystical perceptions when it comes to physical and mental wellbeing.
-Counselling Petone - Lower Hutt: I'm a compassionate and professional counsellor with more than 17 years of experience of helping people. I have successfully treated people with issues that range from minor to chronic problems, such as anxiety, depression, difficult life transitions, panic attacks, ptsd, relationship issues, low self esteem, sleep difficulties, stress, trauma.
Motueka
I provide my clients - children, adolescents, adults and couples - with a confidential and supportive environment in which to explore their inner world and their relationship to family, friends and colleagues.
Mount Maunganui
Life can be hard, but hope and healing are within reach. Whether you’re struggling with your emotions, wanting to understand yourself better, or wish to transform your life, I can help. Together, we'll process how your past has shaped you, uncover the root causes of your current struggles, and equip you with practical tools to create a more fulfilling life. If you choose to work with me, you can expect an experience grounded in empathy, respect and hope.
Napier
Welcome. Reaching out for professional help can be an important step forward for your own mental well-being and the health of your relationships, yet it can be a hard step to take. I work in a respectful and collaborative way, providing the space for you to gain insight into your relationship and your life. Understanding your relationships can help you better understand and connect with yourself and others.
Nelson
Hi, my name is Jean. I'm a counsellor in Nelson and Stoke. I work with individuals, couples and small therapeutic groups. I've been counselling since 2008 and have a private practice in Nelson since 2012.
My name is Bec. I can help with suffering from the effects of grief, trauma (past or present), abuse, anxiety or depression. I use Imago therapy with couples.
My name is Mark, counsellor in Nelson. Ik work both with individuals and couples. I have a strong interest in trauma work and all the associated issues that surround this.
For couples I offer Imago relationship therapy, which is a form of couples counseling and coaching.
New Plymouth
I offer confidential empathetic opportunities for people to explain their difficulties or circumstances and then guide them to clarify the issues and explore practical strategies and alternatives for working through these challenges and moving towards satisfactory resolutions.
My name is Tony, counsellor in New Plymouth.
I have worked in social services for over 20yrs. I am well skilled in working with individuals or couples to find their direction.
I have been involved with complex mental health, addictions, co-existing problems, high risk family harm and management of community agencies and teams.
Palmerston North
Kia Ora,
My name is Sabina, I am registered as an ACC provider and I have a membership with NZCCA. I have experience in working with people from all walks of life who are dealing with a wide range of issues.
COUPLES COUNSELLING ONLY
Thank you for considering me to work with you. I am passionate about working with couples, respecting the uniqueness of each person and each relationship.
I work collaboratively in a safe non-judgmental way in a calm environment.
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Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside clients who are navigating major life transitions, coping with mental health challenges, or seeking greater self-awareness.
I also welcome couples who are interested in relationship counselling.
Hello. I am a counsellor and have worked in the Manawatu region since 2001. Over that time I have worked with a wide range of age groups, and with people from diverse backgrounds. I work with adults of all ages, couples, and children from age 12 years (and support parents and caregivers to support younger children).
Paraparaumu
My name is Angela. I have almost 20 years experience in the mental health sector. From my practice Angela Claridge Wellness on the Kapiti Coast, I support people to positively and proactively address stuck points, distress and disruptive behaviours in their lives, to enable them to live fully, regain control and find joy.
My name is Keri and I am an experienced Counsellor and Human Performance Coach.
Queenstown
Hi, I’m Olivia. I’m a certified sexuality, love and relationship coach on a mission to help people experience the full beauty that exists in loving and being loved by another.
I work with both individuals and couples on their unique desires around sex, love and relationships.
Raglan
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Kia ora, My name is Etai, and I’ve been helping people create positive results in their lives, including lifting depression, easing anxiety and resolving trauma, since
Rotorua
Debbie (Debs)
I am a trained Master NLP Practitioner in my private practice for Personal Transformation Therapy & Counselling.
I have trained as a Counsellor with Te Pu Wananga o Anamata and currently MNZAC
I have a passion to provide opportunities for people to develop personally and professionally to create their best life.
Navigating through challenges and celebrating their successes.
Are you curious to what your potential may be
I look forward to hearing your dreams and aspirations and realising them.
Stoke
Hi, my name is Jean. I'm a counsellor in Stoke and Nelson. I work with individuals, couples and small therapeutic groups. I've been counselling since 2008 and have a private practice since 2012.
Tairua
My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, life coach and hypnotherapist. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, hypnotherapy, couples counselling and family therapy.
Takaka
I provide my clients - children, adolescents, adults and couples - with a confidential and supportive environment in which to explore their inner world and their relationship to family, friends and colleagues.
Taupo
Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside clients who are navigating major life transitions, coping with mental health challenges, or seeking greater self-awareness.
I also welcome couples who are interested in relationship counselling.
Tauranga
--- Currently I only offer online counselling ---
In life we can all have times that are more challenging and painful than others and counselling can provide a safe space to work through those seasons.
I am a counsellor who is committed to providing that safe and confidential environment where people can feel heard and validated while working through their pain and struggles without judgement.
Te Anau
My name is Monty. I provide counselling to individuals, couples and families in the Fiordland area.
Thames
My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, life coach and hypnotherapist. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, hypnotherapy, couples counselling and family therapy.
Upper Hutt
My name is Athena. Although I qualified as a psychologist 35 years ago, I now feel my work is more accurately described by the words "Heart and Mind Coach".
I've found that a sense of inner peace, of feeling comfortable in your own skin, is present when heart, mind, body and spirit are all aligned and moving together.
It is hard to say this stuff about yourself (isn't it?) but as well as bringing a wealth of personal experience to each session, I bring compassion, intuition and a great sense of humour.
Waihi
My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, life coach and hypnotherapist. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, hypnotherapy, couples counselling and family therapy.
Wellington
Overwhelmed by anxiety or depression? Frustrated with those around you? Dissatisfied with where your life and relationships are at?
I work with individuals, couples, children and young people, and can offer you a safe and confidential space to help you explore solutions that are right for you and your particular situation.
Clients come to see me with various difficulties in their lives like depression, loss, anxiety, bereavement, sexual abuse, trauma, low self-esteem and relationship difficulties.
Kia ora and hello! I’m a registered counsellor with experience in addressing all kinds of concerns, including depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, grief, anger management, stress and navigating life transitions.
A key focus and passion is trauma recovery for big T and little t trauma. It may be very recent or from our past. Such trauma as childhood sexual abuse, abandonment, neglect, earthquakes, violence, bullying, car accidents, and warfare.
Hi, I'm Catherine, counsellor and career coach in Wellington. In my practice I support people to positively address challenges in their lives, including their career, to enable them to live with an empowered attitude and find the joy and fulfillment they are striving for.
I'm here to support children, young people, adults & families to work towards a more fulfilled life, for any of the issues that you face. I am in Island Bay. I am non judgemental & caring. I will work with you to get the best results. Let's do this! "It is clear that Ngairini cares deeply for her clients. She provides a safe & warm environment, that allows for them to face into, & work through, life's challenges & difficulties. I would recommend her for anyone wanting to start the healing journey "- Mr. J
Whanganui
Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside clients who are navigating major life transitions, coping with mental health challenges, or seeking greater self-awareness.
I also welcome couples who are interested in relationship counselling.
Hi, I'm Catherine, counsellor and career coach in Whanganui. In my practice I support people to positively address challenges in their lives, including their career, to enable them to live with an empowered attitude and find the joy and fulfillment they are striving for.
Whangarei
Hi, my name is Colin, counsellor in Whangarei. I have over 30 years experience working with individuals (children, youth, adults), families and couples.
We all experience difficulties at times in our lives that cause us to struggle, lose hope and feel like our life is out of control. I believe it is possible to gain the strength needed to face our issues, the hope to move forward and the balance to feel in control of our lives again. Counselling can assist in helping you to overcome life’s hurdles in a positive way.
Online counselling and online therapy
In life we can all have times that are more challenging and painful than others and counselling can provide a safe space to work through those seasons.
I am a counsellor who is committed to providing that safe and confidential environment where people can feel heard and validated while working through their pain and struggles without judgement.
Feeling distressed from a current or past relationship ?
Look no further. As an experienced Counsellor and Family Therapist my expertise is to provide a healing and growth container where we can be and explore your emotions and ultimately work towards empowering solutions.
The space I provide combined with my therapeutic knowledge and supportive frameworks around communication and self care is designed to give you what you need to make major life changes and live a life of greater empowerment and wellbeing.
I’m an Existential therapist, and I offer individual counselling and psychotherapy. I like supporting people in activating their connection to themselves and accompanying them through challenging life situations. Additionally, I am drawn to Eastern Philosophy, mindfulness, and interconnectedness.
Life/Work Balance Coaching for Self Employed Dad’s. Supporting your balance with Mental health – Wellbeing – Business – Relationship & family life. Are you struggling to find balance, joy, or success amongst the demands and responsibilities of supporting your family, maintaining your relationship, being self-employed, managing staff, and attending to your own mental health and well being? I'll help you to destress, reconnect, refocus, revive. Tools and practices to cultivate deeper self-awareness and access your
My name is Julie. I am a Holistic Counsellor, an intuitive and a spiritual mentor. My spiritual awareness and my background in the field of health have benefitted my appreciation for both tangible and mystical perceptions when it comes to physical and mental wellbeing.
I look forward to sharing with you an approach that has been crafted over 30 years of working as a skillful and accomplished coach + mentor in holistic health and communication. I am a certified trainer with the Centre for Nonviolent Communication.
I have a wide range of skills and have the ability to work with people from all walks of life.
Languages: English, Hindi, Punjabi
My name is Tony, Online only available currently.
$150 per session
I have over 20 years of experience in social services, specialising in guiding individuals and couples toward their goals. My expertise encompasses addiction issues, anger management, family harm risk situations, and trauma. Additionally, I offer general counselling. You're always welcome to reach out for support in these areas.
As a warm and passionate Psychologist, I provide non-judgemental and authentic therapy to ensure my clients feel supported and valued. Servicing clients of all age groups (children, adolescents, adults)
Online Relationship Coaching NZ. Hi, I’m Olivia. I’m a certified sexuality, love and relationship coach on a mission to help people experience the full beauty that exists in loving and being loved by another.
I work with both individuals and couples on their unique desires around sex, love and relationships.
Hi, I'm Catherine, online counsellor and online career coach. I support people to positively address challenges in their lives, including their career, to enable them to live with an empowered attitude and find the joy and fulfillment they are striving for. I have been doing skype sessions with for therapy sessions and career counselling.
Online counselling - online therapy - online coaching
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