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Why do I always go for men that hurt me?

45 years old and single: Why do I always go for men that hurt me? Why am I not interested in normal relationship? If there is no reason, I create one.

In every relationship that means something to me, I face lack of self confidence. I cannot believe that I am also a special human being. I always feel that other are, but never myself.

Every time the same program runs: again it turns out you are not able to stay with a man. Someone like you is no good; any woman is better and more beautiful then you.

Who or what can help me?


Anonymous
> 2 years ago
last response: 16-11-2022

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Do you know the book "Finding Clarity" by Jeru Kabbal? He writes beautifully about that.


Y
> 2 years ago
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I attract Men who are wrong for me.
It's a natural sense of. I can fix what's broken. I am a Woman who understands him. I realise its a form of self sabotage and a feeling of low self worth there are many great inspirational speakers out there that identify this.
It is a difficult hurdle to get over as I find there are lots of people out in the world with relationship problems but they don't or can't do anything about it

Marla
16-11-2022

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