Lonely with Christmas

Would other people realize how lonely Christmas can be? I don't have a relationship/ family, do have a nice job and friends, but with Christmas there's always again the confrontation with being single.

It makes me realize that it would be so nice to make decisions together or at least be able to talk about it. In my head there is often a very lonely repeating dialogue with pro's and con's with the result that I don't make any decision.

For those who have a relationship/ family: feel blessed and cherish this togetherness!