I don't dare to tell anybody about my relationship
Nobody knows that my best friend and I have a relationship. It just happened like that. My girlfriend had always known she was a lesbian, she told me only later.
But I am not sure if I am a lesbian. I am also not sure if I want to continue with her. It's all so confusing. I always pictured myself to marry with a man and have children.
When I continue with her, my wish for children cannot come true, I think. I don't dare to talk about my relationship with anybody, because my friends and family are not so positive about homosexual relationships. But my girlfriend wants to 'come out' and puts pressure on me. Now she is waiting for me. What should I do?
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